Wrapping his wife in a blanket as she mourned the loss of her pregnancy at 11 weeks, Hope Ngumezi wondered why no obstetrician was coming to see her.
Over the course of six hours on June 11, 2023, Porsha Ngumezi had bled so much in the emergency department at Houston Methodist Sugar Land that she’d needed two transfusions. She was anxious to get home to her young sons, but according to a nurse’s notes, she was still “passing large clots the size of grapefruit.”
Hope dialed his mother, a former physician, who was unequivocal. “You need a D&C,” she told them, referring to dilation and curettage, a common procedure for first-trimester miscarriages and abortions. If a doctor could remove the remaining tissue from her uterus, the bleeding would end.
But when Dr. Andrew Ryan Davis, the obstetrician on duty, finally arrived, he said it was the hospital’s “routine” to give a drug called misoprostol to help the body pass the tissue, Hope recalled. Hope trusted the doctor. Porsha took the pills, according to records, and the bleeding continued.
Three hours later, her heart stopped.
The 35-year-old’s death was preventable, according to more than a dozen doctors who reviewed a detailed summary of her case for ProPublica. Some said it raises serious questions about how abortion bans are pressuring doctors to diverge from the standard of care and reach for less-effective options that could expose their patients to more risks. Doctors and patients described similar decisions they’ve witnessed across the state.
It was clear Porsha needed an emergency D&C, the medical experts said. She was hemorrhaging and the doctors knew she had a blood-clotting disorder, which put her at greater danger of excessive and prolonged bleeding. “Misoprostol at 11 weeks is not going to work fast enough,” said Dr. Amber Truehart, an OB-GYN at the University of New Mexico Center for Reproductive Health. “The patient will continue to bleed and have a higher risk of going into hemorrhagic shock.” The medical examiner found the cause of death to be hemorrhage.
D&Cs — a staple of maternal health care — can be lifesaving. Doctors insert a straw-like tube into the uterus and gently suction out any remaining pregnancy tissue. Once the uterus is emptied, it can close, usually stopping the bleeding.
But because D&Cs are also used to end pregnancies, the procedure has become tangled up in state legislation that restricts abortions. In Texas, any doctor who violates the strict law risks up to 99 years in prison. Porsha’s is the fifth case ProPublica has reported in which women died after they did not receive a D&C or its second-trimester equivalent, a dilation and evacuation; three of those deaths were in Texas.
Texas doctors told ProPublica the law has changed the way their colleagues see the procedure; some no longer consider it a first-line treatment, fearing legal repercussions or dissuaded by the extra legwork required to document the miscarriage and get hospital approval to carry out a D&C. This has occurred, ProPublica found, even in cases like Porsha’s where there isn’t a fetal heartbeat or the circumstances should fall under an exception in the law. Some doctors are transferring those patients to other hospitals, which delays their care, or they’re defaulting to treatments that aren’t the medical standard.
Hope visits his wife’s gravesite in Pearland. Credit: Danielle Villasana for ProPublica
Misoprostol, the medicine given to Porsha, is an effective method to complete low-risk miscarriages but is not recommended when a patient is unstable. The drug is also part of a two-pill regimen for abortions, yet administering it may draw less scrutiny than a D&C because it requires a smaller medical team and because the drug is commonly used to induce labor and treat postpartum hemorrhage. Since 2022, some Texas women who were bleeding heavily while miscarrying have gone public about only receiving medication when they asked for D&Cs. One later passed out in a pool of her own blood.
“Stigma and fear are there for D&Cs in a way that they are not for misoprostol,” said Dr. Alison Goulding, an OB-GYN in Houston. “Doctors assume that a D&C is not standard in Texas anymore, even in cases where it should be recommended. People are afraid: They see D&C as abortion and abortion as illegal.”
Doctors and nurses involved in Porsha’s care did not respond to multiple requests for comment.
Several physicians who reviewed the summary of her case pointed out that Davis’ post-mortem notes did not reflect nurses’ documented concerns about Porsha’s “heavy bleeding.” After Porsha died, Davis wrote instead that the nurses and other providers described the bleeding as “minimal,” though no nurses wrote this in the records. ProPublica tried to ask Davis about this discrepancy. He did not respond to emails, texts or calls.
Houston Methodist officials declined to answer a detailed list of questions about Porsha’s treatment. They did not comment when asked whether Davis’ approach was the hospital’s “routine.” A spokesperson said that “each patient’s care is unique to that individual.”
“All Houston Methodist hospitals follow all state laws,” the spokesperson added, “including the abortion law in place in Texas.”
Hope and his two sons outside their home in Houston. Credit: Danielle Villasana for ProPublica
Hope marveled at the energy Porsha had for their two sons, ages 5 and 3. Whenever she wasn’t working, she was chasing them through the house or dancing with them in the living room. As a finance manager at a charter school system, she was in charge of the household budget. As an engineer for an airline, Hope took them on flights around the world — to Chile, Bali, Guam, Singapore, Argentina.
The two had met at Lamar University in Beaumont, Texas. “When Porsha and I began dating,” Hope said, “I already knew I was going to love her.” She was magnetic and driven, going on to earn an MBA, but she was also gentle with him, always protecting his feelings. Both were raised in big families and they wanted to build one of their own.
When he learned Porsha was pregnant again in the spring of 2023, Hope wished for a girl. Porsha found a new OB-GYN who said she could see her after 11 weeks. Ten weeks in, though, Porsha noticed she was spotting. Over the phone, the obstetrician told her to go to the emergency room if it got worse.
To celebrate the end of the school year, Porsha and Hope took their boys to a water park in Austin, and as they headed back, on June 11, Porsha told Hope that the bleeding was heavier. They decided Hope would stay with the boys at home until a relative could take over; Porsha would drive to the emergency room at Houston Methodist Sugar Land, one of seven community hospitals that are part of the Houston Methodist system.
At 6:30 p.m, three hours after Porsha arrived at the hospital, she saw huge clots in the toilet. “Significant bleeding,” the emergency physician wrote. “I’m starting to feel a lot of pain,” Porsha texted Hope. Around 7:30 p.m., she wrote: “She said I might need surgery if I don’t stop bleeding,” referring to the nurse. At 7:50 p.m., after a nurse changed her second diaper in an hour: “Come now.”
Still, the doctor didn’t mention a D&C at this point, records show. Medical experts told ProPublica that this wait-and-see approach has become more common under abortion bans. Unless there is “overt information indicating that the patient is at significant risk,” hospital administrators have told physicians to simply monitor them, said Dr. Robert Carpenter, a maternal-fetal medicine specialist who works in several hospital systems in Houston. Methodist declined to share its miscarriage protocols with ProPublica or explain how it is guiding doctors under the abortion ban.
As Porsha waited for Hope, a radiologist completed an ultrasound and noted that she had “a pregnancy of unknown location.” The scan detected a “sac-like structure” but no fetus or cardiac activity. This report, combined with her symptoms, indicated she was miscarrying.
But the ultrasound record alone was less definitive from a legal perspective, several doctors explained to ProPublica. Since Porsha had not had a prenatal visit, there was no documentation to prove she was 11 weeks along. On paper, this “pregnancy of unknown location” diagnosis could also suggest that she was only a few weeks into a normally developing pregnancy, when cardiac activity wouldn’t be detected. Texas outlaws abortion from the moment of fertilization; a record showing there is no cardiac activity isn’t enough to give physicians cover to intervene, experts said.
Dr. Gabrielle Taper, who recently worked as an OB-GYN resident in Austin, said that she regularly witnessed delays after ultrasound reports like these. “If it’s a pregnancy of unknown location, if we do something to manage it, is that considered an abortion or not?” she said, adding that this was one of the key problems she encountered. After the abortion ban went into effect, she said, “there was much more hesitation about: When can we intervene, do we have enough evidence to say this is a miscarriage, how long are we going to wait, what will we use to feel definitive?”
At Methodist, the emergency room doctor reached Davis, the on-call OB-GYN, to discuss the ultrasound, according to records. They agreed on a plan of “observation in the hospital to monitor bleeding.”
A sonogram of Porsha’s firstborn on the fridge in the family home. She was excited to have a third child. Credit: Danielle Villasana for ProPublica
Around 8:30 p.m., just after Hope arrived, Porsha passed out. Terrified, he took her head in his hands and tried to bring her back to consciousness. “Babe, look at me,” he told her. “Focus.” Her blood pressure was dipping dangerously low. She had held off on accepting a blood transfusion until he got there. Now, as she came to, she agreed to receive one and then another.
By this point, it was clear that she needed a D&C, more than a dozen OB-GYNs who reviewed her case told ProPublica. She was hemorrhaging, and the standard of care is to vacuum out the residual tissue so the uterus can clamp down, physicians told ProPublica.
“Complete the miscarriage and the bleeding will stop,” said Dr. Lauren Thaxton, an OB-GYN who recently left Texas.
“At every point, it’s kind of shocking,” said Dr. Daniel Grossman, a professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of California, San Francisco who reviewed Porsha’s case. “She is having significant blood loss and the physician didn’t move toward aspiration.”
All Porsha talked about was her devastation of losing the pregnancy. She was cold, crying and in extreme pain. She wanted to be at home with her boys. Unsure what to say, Hope leaned his chest over the cot, passing his body heat to her.
At 9:45 p.m., Esmeralda Acosta, a nurse, wrote that Porsha was “continuing to pass large clots the size of grapefruit.” Fifteen minutes later, when the nurse learned Davis planned to send Porsha to a floor with fewer nurses, she “voiced concern” that he wanted to take her out of the emergency room, given her condition, according to medical records.
At 10:20 p.m., seven hours after Porsha arrived, Davis came to see her. Hope remembered what his mother had told him on the phone earlier that night: “She needs a D&C.” The doctor seemed confident about a different approach: misoprostol. If that didn’t work, Hope remembers him saying, they would move on to the procedure.
A pill sounded good to Porsha because the idea of surgery scared her. Davis did not explain that a D&C involved no incisions, just suction, according to Hope, or tell them that it would stop the bleeding faster. The Ngumezis followed his recommendation without question. “I’m thinking, ‘He’s the OB, he’s probably seen this a thousand times, he probably knows what’s right,’” Hope said.
But more than a dozen doctors who reviewed Porsha’s case were concerned by this recommendation. Many said it was dangerous to give misoprostol to a woman who’s bleeding heavily, especially one with a blood clotting disorder. “That’s not what you do,” said Dr. Elliott Main, the former medical director for the California Maternal Quality Care Collaborative and an expert in hemorrhage, after reviewing the case. “She needed to go to the operating room.” Main and others said doctors are obliged to counsel patients on the risks and benefits of all their options, including a D&C.
Performing a D&C, though, attracts more attention from colleagues, creating a higher barrier in a state where abortion is illegal, explained Goulding, the OB-GYN in Houston. Staff are familiar with misoprostol because it’s used for labor, and it only requires a doctor and a nurse to administer it. To do a procedure, on the other hand, a doctor would need to find an operating room, an anesthesiologist and a nursing team. “You have to convince everyone that it is legal and won’t put them at risk,” said Goulding. “Many people may be afraid and misinformed and refuse to participate — even if it’s for a miscarriage.”
Davis moved Porsha to a less-intensive unit, according to records. Hope wondered why they were leaving the emergency room if the nurse seemed so worried. But instead of pushing back, he rubbed Porsha’s arms, trying to comfort her. The hospital was reputable. “Since we were at Methodist, I felt I could trust the doctors.”
On their way to the other ward, Porsha complained of chest pain. She kept remarking on it when they got to the new room. From this point forward, there are no nurse’s notes recording how much she continued to bleed. “My wife says she doesn’t feel right, and last time she said that, she passed out,” Hope told a nurse. Furious, he tried to hold it together so as not to alarm Porsha. “We need to see the doctor,” he insisted.
Her vital signs looked fine. But many physicians told ProPublica that when healthy pregnant patients are hemorrhaging, their bodies can compensate for a long time, until they crash. Any sign of distress, such as chest pain, could be a red flag; the symptom warranted investigation with tests, like an electrocardiogram or X-ray, experts said. To them, Porsha’s case underscored how important it is that doctors be able to intervene before there are signs of a life-threatening emergency.
But Davis didn’t order any tests, according to records.
Around 1:30 a.m., Hope was sitting by Porsha’s bed, his hands on her chest, telling her, “We are going to figure this out.” They were talking about what she might like for breakfast when she began gasping for air.
“Help, I need help!” he shouted to the nurses through the intercom. “She can’t breathe.”
“All she needed”
Hope with his son. Credit: Danielle Villasana for ProPublica
Hours later, Hope returned home in a daze. “Is mommy still at the hospital?” one of his sons asked. Hope nodded; he couldn’t find the words to tell the boys they’d lost their mother. He dressed them and drove them to school, like the previous day had been a bad dream. He reached for his phone to call Porsha, as he did every morning that he dropped the kids off. But then he remembered that he couldn’t.
Friends kept reaching out. Most of his family’s network worked in medicine, and after they said how sorry they were, one after another repeated the same message. All she needed was a D&C, said one. They shouldn’t have given her that medication, said another. It’s a simple procedure, the callers continued. We do this all the time in Nigeria.
Since Porsha died, several families in Texas have spoken publicly about similar circumstances. This May, when Ryan Hamilton’s wife was bleeding while miscarrying at 13 weeks, the first doctor they saw at Surepoint Emergency Center Stephenville noted no fetal cardiac activity and ordered misoprostol, according to medical records. When they returned because the bleeding got worse, an emergency doctor on call, Kyle Demler, said he couldn’t do anything considering “the current stance” in Texas, according to Hamilton, who recorded his recollection of the conversation shortly after speaking with Demler. (Neither Surepoint Emergency Center Stephenville nor Demler responded to several requests for comment.)
They drove an hour to another hospital asking for a D&C to stop the bleeding, but there, too, the physician would only prescribe misoprostol, medical records indicate. Back home, Hamilton’s wife continued bleeding until he found her passed out on the bathroom floor. “You don’t think it can really happen like that,” said Hamilton. “It feels like you’re living in some sort of movie, it’s so unbelievable.”
Across Texas, physicians say they blame the law for interfering with medical care. After ProPublica reported last month on two women who diedafter delays in miscarriage care, 111 OB-GYNs sent a letter to Texas policymakers, saying that “the law does not allow Texas women to get the lifesaving care they need.”
Dr. Austin Dennard, an OB-GYN in Dallas, told ProPublica that if one person on a medical team doubts the doctor’s choice to proceed with a D&C, the physician might back down. “You constantly feel like you have someone looking over your shoulder in a punitive, vigilante type of way.”
The criminal penalties are so chilling that even women with diagnoses included in the law’s exceptions are facing delays and denials. Last year, for example, legislators added an update to the ban for patients diagnosed with previable premature rupture of membranes, in which a patient’s water breaks before a fetus can survive. Doctors can still face prosecution for providing abortions in those cases, but they are offered the chance to justify themselves with what’s called an “affirmative defense,” not unlike a murder suspect arguing self defense. This modest change has not stopped some doctors from transferring those patients instead of treating them; Dr. Allison Gilbert, an OB-GYN in Dallas, said doctors send them to her from other hospitals. “They didn’t feel like other staff members would be comfortable proceeding with the abortion,” she said. “It’s frustrating that places still feel like they can’t act on some of these cases that are clearly emergencies.” Women denied treatment for ectopic pregnancies, another exception in the law, have filed federal complaints.
In response to ProPublica’s questions about Houston Methodist’s guidance on miscarriage management, a spokesperson, Gale Smith, said that the hospital has an ethics committee, which can usually respond within hours to help physicians and patients make “appropriate decisions” in compliance with state laws.
After Porsha died, Davis described in the medical record a patient who looked stable: He was tracking her vital signs, her bleeding was “mild” and she was “said not to be in distress.” He ordered bloodwork “to ensure patient wasn’t having concerning bleeding.” Medical experts who reviewed Porsha’s case couldn’t understand why Davis noted that a nurse and other providers reported “decreasing bleeding” in the emergency department when the record indicated otherwise. “He doesn’t document the heavy bleeding that the nurse clearly documented, including the significant bleeding that prompted the blood transfusion, which is surprising,” Grossman, the UCSF professor, said.
Patients who are miscarrying still don’t know what to expect from Houston Methodist.
This past May, Marlena Stell, a patient with symptoms nearly identical to Porsha’s, arrived at another hospital in the system, Houston Methodist The Woodlands. According to medical records, she, too, was 11 weeks along and bleeding heavily. An ultrasound confirmed there was no fetal heartbeat and indicated the miscarriage wasn’t complete. “I assumed they would do whatever to get the bleeding to stop,” Stell said.
Instead, she bled for hours at the hospital. She wanted a D&C to clear out the rest of the tissue, but the doctor gave her methergine, a medication that’s typically used after childbirth to stop bleeding but that isn’t standard care in the middle of a miscarriage, doctors told ProPublica. “She had heavy bleeding, and she had an ultrasound that’s consistent with retained products of conception.” said Dr. Jodi Abbott, an associate professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Boston University School of Medicine, who reviewed the records. “The standard of care would be a D&C.”
Stell says that instead, she was sent home and told to “let the miscarriage take its course.” She completed her miscarriage later that night, but doctors who reviewed her case, so similar to Porsha’s, said it showed how much of a gamble physicians take when they don’t follow the standard of care. “She got lucky — she could have died,” Abbott said. (Houston Methodist did not respond to a request for comment on Stell’s care.)
It hadn’t occurred to Hope that the laws governing abortion could have any effect on his wife’s miscarriage. Now it’s the only explanation that makes sense to him. “We all know pregnancies can come out beautifully or horribly,” Hope told ProPublica. “Instead of putting laws in place to make pregnancies safer, we created laws that put them back in danger.”
For months, Hope’s youngest son didn’t understand that his mom was gone. Porsha’s long hair had been braided, and anytime the toddler saw a woman with braids from afar, he would take off after her, shouting, “That’s mommy!”
A couple weeks ago, Hope flew to Amsterdam to quiet his mind. It was his first trip without Porsha, but as he walked the city, he didn’t know how to experience it without her. He kept thinking about how she would love the Christmas lights and want to try all the pastries. How she would have teased him when he fell asleep on a boat tour of the canals. “I thought getting away would help,” he wrote in his journal. “But all I’ve done is imagine her beside me.”
Hope now wears his and Porsha’s wedding rings around his neck. Photo Credit: Danielle Villasana for ProPublicaPorsha’s son plays with cards capturing memories of his mother. Photo Credit: Danielle Villasana for ProPublica
For Isabel Patton, Thanksgiving is more than just a holiday—it’s a cherished family tradition and a testament to her grandmother’s legacy of generosity and compassion. This tradition, which has become a hallmark of the Liendo family, began in 1994 with Isabel’s grandmother, Carrie Liendo Ruiz.
(Photo by Pat Trevino) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
It all started in the warmth of Carrie’s home. Isabel recalls how each Thanksgiving, her grandmother would prepare plates of food for neighbors who were alone or elderly. “It was her way of giving thanks for all her blessings,” Isabel reminisces. “The grandchildren, including myself, would take the plates to the neighbors. It was a way for us to give back to the community that had supported our family.”
(Instagram photo) Let’s Stand Together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024
As the years passed, Carrie realized that many more in the Cuero area were in need of a Thanksgiving meal. Driven by her strong sense of community, she decided to expand the tradition into a larger, community-wide effort. Her dream was to ensure that everyone in Cuero, regardless of their circumstances, would have a place to enjoy a traditional Thanksgiving meal.
(Photo Courtesy of Lisa Ruiz) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
Isabel began organizing the event in 2006, before her grandmother’s passing on February 28, 2007. With her grandmother’s blessing, Isabel took over the Thanksgiving meal program and continued the tradition that had become so meaningful to their family and the community.
(Photo courtesy of Lisa Ruiz) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
Her Uncle David was instrumental in rallying support, especially from the men who would cook the turkeys outside from 6 PM until the following morning. Sadly, many of these dedicated helpers, including Larry Carter, Rudy Perez, Marcello Varela, Carrie Valenzula, and Isabel’s Uncle David, have since passed away. Fela Nava, who usually prepared the giblet gravy, also passed away, but Isabel has now taken over this task as well.
(Photo courtesy of Lisa Ruiz) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
This year, they prepared 48 turkeys and served 600 people, most of whom were less fortunate, disabled, or elderly and homebound. “We had trouble delivering plates this time because many of our usual volunteer drivers have passed away,” Isabel explains.
(Photo by Pat Trevino) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
The event took place on Thanksgiving Day at Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Church. The hall opened at 8 a.m., and at 10 a.m., the first trays were sent out. At noon, there was a sit-down dinner for volunteers and anyone else who wanted to join. Preparation began the day before, with volunteers decorating the hall, wrapping pies, cutting and slicing, dressing the turkeys, and putting them on the pit.
(Photo by Pat Trevino) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
(Photo by Pat Trevino) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
The past couple of years has been a challenge finding volunteers. “I prayed that God would send us volunteers because it gets really hard to pull this off with just a handful of people. Volunteers are always needed and welcomed. We need people to help set up, debone the turkey, serve, and clean up, as well as cooks who can pull an all-nighter,” she says. Last year, it took us three hours to debone the turkey. This year we were able to do it in an hour said Isabel, as she turned with a smile and gazed at the dozens of volunteers, working at various stations.
(Photo Courtesy of Lisa Ruiz) Let’s Stand together Community Thanksgiving Dinner 2024 Volunteer Crew
Through Isabel’s dedication, Carrie’s legacy of love and generosity continues to thrive, ensuring that no one in Cuero goes without a meal on Thanksgiving.
(Photo by Pat Trevino) Pictured standing left to right -Father Paul and Father Richard. Sitting Volunteer clean crew left to right – Nadia Light, Gabby Light and Easton Light.
For those interested in supporting this cause, donations and volunteer sign-ups are greatly appreciated. “They can call me, Isabel Patton, at 361-564-7868, Monetary donations can be made to Let’s Stand Together at Wells Fargo Bank.
Tickets can be purchased at Lifeway Church beginning Dec 1st. Date of drawing to be determined. Drawing will held be on Facebook Live. Winners do not have to be present to win.
Get ready for an electrifying showdown! Katy Legacy Stadium is the place to be on Friday, November 29th at 7:00 PM, as Yoakum takes on Columbus in a highly anticipated rematch in the Regional Semi-Final Playoffs!
Event Details: What: Varsity Football – Regional Semi-Final Playoff Matchup: Yoakum (Home) vs Columbus (Visitor) When: Friday, November 29 at 7:00 PM Where: Legacy Stadium, Katy, Texas
Come loud and proud to cheer on the Bulldogs! This thrilling game promises to be an unforgettable experience for all fans.
Ticket Information: Online Ticket Sales Only:https://www.vancoevents.com/us/CUVR Ticket Prices: $10.00 – Adult: $5.00 – Student Gates Open:1 hour before the game Pass Holder Entry: All pass holders must enter through the designated Pass Gate. Tickets must be presented at the gates for entry. No re-entry is allowed. Passes are single use only, and the “no re-entry” policy applies to passes.
Join the Yoakum Bulldogs for a night of high-energy football and community pride. Show your support and spirit for the Yoakum Bulldogs as they battle it out in Round 3 of the Regional Playoffs. Let’s make some noise and cheer them on to victory! 🏈
It was Thanksgiving Day, November 27, 2008, and Officer David Guajardo was the only Police officer on duty for the City of Cuero. He was making his usual rounds, eagerly anticipating lunch time so he could enjoy a Thanksgiving meal. It was a typical quiet day despite it being a Holiday. The streets were calm, and the town seemed to be taking a collective breath, everything pointed to a tranquil holiday.
Just as David settled in to take his first bite of Thanksgiving dinner, the tranquility was shattered by a call that would change everything for the family of Elosia Mejia and her son Jacob Mejia. A serious crash had been reported, and the urgency in the dispatcher’s voice left no room for delay. With his heart racing, Officer Guajardo sprang into action, leaving his untouched meal behind. He bolted out the door, his mind now singularly focused on the unknown scene awaiting him.
He had seen his fair share of wreckage when he worked with EMS in Dallas-Fort Worth. From the fender benders to the pileups and serious car wrecks. As he approached the carnage in front of him, he knew immediately it was one of the most serious accidents he had ever encountered.
The wreckage of Jacob Mejia’s car lay twisted and mangled, a stark reflection of the sheer force and brutality of the crash. The sight of the crumpled metal and the eerie stillness of the crushed body concerned him, his hand already on his radio calling for the Jaws of Life and assistance from the fire department. Drawing nearer, he could hear the young man’s labored breaths, feeling relieved that he was still alive, yet aware that he was in a life-or-death situation where every second counted.
Eloisa answered her phone, and it was her ex-husband, but his words seemed incomprehensible. It felt like a surreal nightmare—a tragedy you hear about happening to someone else, yet it was happening to her, her son, and her family. Her 19-year-old son, Jacob, had been in Cuero, rushing to his grandfather’s house to celebrate Thanksgiving. Eloisa’s ex-husband explained that Jacob had been in a severe car accident and was being airlifted to Corpus Christi’s Christus Spohn Memorial Hospital.
Jacob Mejia suffered a traumatic brain injury a fractured pelvis on both sides, a punctured lung, and a collapsed lung, loss of vision in his right eye and numerous fractures throughout his body. When he arrived at the hospital doctors wanted to perform a craniotomy, but his blood pressure was too low. He went into surgery the following day to repair the fractures on the right side of his face which included his skull, cheek bones, forehead and eye. After 3 hours of surgery, Jacob slipped into a coma.
This harrowing event would set off a series of profound changes in Eloisa Mejia’s life, leading her on a path she could have never imagined. From the depths of tragedy and despair, a new purpose would emerge, transforming her journey in ways she had never foreseen.
As she sat by her comatose son, praying and sometimes speaking to him, she found solace in word search puzzles. Initially buying one, she soon purchased every puzzle book the hospital gift shop had to offer. They became her refuge, a distraction from the torment of her situation. She took comfort in the hope of his awakening or in the simple act of solving her word puzzles.
Eloisa sat by his bed waiting for Jacob to wake up. The seconds turned into minutes, the minutes into hours, the hours into days and the days into weeks. She had worked on dozens upon dozens of word puzzles. Then after ten days Jacob opened his eyes. Jacob’s traumatic brain injury resulted in post-traumatic amnesia, which makes it difficult for him to recall certain traumatic events or even some memories.
Jacob’s recovery required months of physical therapy, and while he was having therapy. Eloisa was working on her word puzzles. Eloisa said her family got through the ordeal by living by the phrase “Prayer is Power.”
During the months in the hospital, Eloisa found solace in word puzzle books from the hospital gift shop. These puzzles provided a much-needed distraction and a way to stay mentally occupied while Jacob healed. She began to think about creating puzzle books with biblical phrases and verses to help others find peace and strengthen their faith.
Inspired by her experience, Eloisa decided to publish her first puzzle book. To her surprise, it was well-received, and people began requesting more. She continued to create and publish books, each filled with different Bible verses, while also caring for her son and working full-time.
(Left to Right) Jacob Mejia, Elosia Mejia, and Nathan Mejia
Jacob had made significant strides in his recovery. Though he would never fully return to his previous self as a result of the brain injury, he was able to enjoy life again, going fishing with his brother and spending time with family.
Eloisa’s puzzle books have gained in popularity and are being used as learning tools in several Catholic schools. She received her licensing agreement with the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) to apply the same puzzle format for the Catholic Lectionary for Mass Books.
As this Thanksgiving marks 16 years since that tragic accident, Eloisa’s faith in God has only grown stronger. Eloisa has published 20 puzzle books and continues to create more, driven by her passion for providing comfort and inspiration to others. Although she was offered a substantial sum for the rights to her books, she refused, choosing instead to focus on helping those in need. Excitingly, she is set to release a new book just in time for Christmas titled “Guided by Grace Bible Word Search Puzzle Book: Prayers and Scriptures for Daily Inspiration, Catholic Saints Edition.” This latest addition promises to be another beacon of hope and faith for her readers.
Elosia Corpus Mejia and son Jacob Mejia
Eloisa Mejia’s story is one of resilience, faith, and the power of turning personal tragedy into a source of inspiration and strength for others. Her journey reminds us all of the importance of gratitude, prayer, and the unwavering belief in the power of faith to guide us through even the darkest of times. As she prepares to retire and focus on her passion for creating more puzzle books, Eloisa remains thankful for every blessing, every challenge, and the enduring love of her family.
Cuero, Texas – Get ready to immerse yourself in the enchantment of Cuero’s 12th Annual Christmas in Downtown Cuero event! This festive celebration will span two magical days, starting on Friday, December 13th from 6 PM to 10 PM, and continuing on Saturday, December 14th from noon to 10 PM. This event is public and open to everyone, so bring your family and friends to join in the holiday fun.
The festivities will kick off with a grand Opening & Ribbon Cutting Walk Through, leading you into a winter wonderland. Visitors will marvel at a 30-foot Christmas tree adorned with twinkling lights, and the timeless charm of an old-fashioned carousel is sure to bring smiles and joy to all who attend.
Explore the beauty of the holiday season with stunning festive decorations, an ice skating rink, and adorned storefronts. Don’t miss the opportunity to visit the charming and beloved Historical Pharmacy and Medical Museum, adding an extra touch of nostalgia to your holiday experience.
This year’s event will feature the return of favorites like the Snowzilla Slide, Petting Zoo, and Horse Drawn Carriage Rides. Additionally, there will be a Christmas Market and a variety of food trucks, offering something special for everyone.
Come and discover the wonder and magic of Christmas in Downtown Cuero. Whether you’re skating on the ice rink, enjoying the twinkling lights, or simply soaking in the festive atmosphere, this event promises to create unforgettable holiday memories for all.
Cuero’s Christmas in the Park officially opened with a spectacular Ribbon Cutting Walk Through event that was truly a special evening filled with joy and holiday spirit. The festivities were marked by laughter, smiles, and the magical ambiance of the holiday season.
The City of Cuero employees did an amazing job of setting up all the beautiful displays that bring ‘Christmas in the Park‘ to life. Their dedication and efforts have turned the park into a magical winter wonderland, captivating visitors of all ages.
The Cuero Development Corporation merits commendation for their outstanding planning and organization, which play a significant role in the annual success of Christmas in the Park. Their meticulous attention to detail ensures a seamless and enjoyable experience for every participant.
HEB added a delightful touch to the evening with their generous donation of cookies, cocoa, and punch, providing sweet treats that everyone enjoyed. These contributions enhanced the festive atmosphere, making the event even more special for attendees.
And this event wouldn’t be made possible without the support from all the volunteers. A special shoutout for their unwavering commitment. Year after year, they make this beloved event so special. Their dedication and enthusiasm are the heartbeat of Christmas in the Park, and we are incredibly grateful for their contributions.
One of the highlights of the evening was the new sound system designed by James Teleco, which filled the park with the sounds of Christmas cheer. The music created a festive ambiance, spreading joy and holiday spirit throughout the event.
Cuero’s Christmas in the Park is now open for the season, inviting residents and visitors to immerse themselves in the holiday magic. The event promises to be a memorable experience for all, with beautiful scenes, festive music, and a sense of community that makes the holidays truly special.
Come and enjoy the festivities at Cuero’s Christmas in the Park and help celebrate the season in style. We look forward to seeing you throughout the holiday season!